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About Mike
Dedicated Child Custody Strategist and Coach
A trusted guide for parents navigating custody and co-parenting challenges — with expertise, empathy, and a deeply personal commitment to your family's future.
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Meet Mike the Lawyer
When people first meet me, one of the first things they notice is the fedora. Some ask if it's part of a costume. Others wonder if it's a tribute to another era. The truth is much simpler. The fedora reminds me of a time when people slowed down, listened carefully, treated one another with respect, and believed that character mattered as much as credentials. It represents calm in the middle of chaos—something every parent deserves during separation or divorce. The classic suit tells the same story. It isn't about making a statement. It's about bringing back an old-fashioned commitment to professionalism, preparation, and personal service. In today's fast-moving world, families often feel like just another case number. I believe you deserve better.
Custody battles can consume every part of your life. They affect your sleep, your finances, your relationships, your confidence, and, most importantly, your children. Every phone call, every email, every court date can feel overwhelming. My goal is to help take what feels all-consuming and make it manageable. I can't erase the conflict, but I can help you navigate it with greater clarity, confidence, and purpose. I walk alongside parents—not in front of them and never behind them. I help you understand the process, organize your thoughts, prepare for difficult conversations, communicate more effectively, and work alongside your legal team with intention rather than emotion. Sometimes the greatest value isn't having someone fight louder. It's having someone help you think clearer.
I believe empathy is a strength. Preparation is power. Calm is contagious. And treating people with dignity should never go out of style. If you're feeling overwhelmed, you're not alone. Together, we'll replace confusion with clarity, fear with preparation, and chaos with a plan that helps you move forward one step at a time.
Welcome to Custody Chaos.
Featured in the Catonsville Times
Recognized for founding Maryland's Child Access Center and helping families reduce conflict during child custody transitions
Long before launching Custody Chaos™, Mike was creating innovative solutions for families navigating custody disputes. Inspired by his own personal experience, he founded Maryland's Child Access Center to provide a safe, neutral environment for child exchanges, supervised visitation, and court-ordered parenting services.
His work was featured by the Catonsville Times for helping courts, parents, and children move through difficult transitions with greater safety, structure, and compassion.
Clarity Over Confusion
Custody is overwhelming. Mike's job is to cut through the noise and give you a clear picture of where you stand and what your options are in any given situation.
Empathy First
Every family is different. Mike listens before he advises, making sure his guidance fits your unique situation — not a one-size-fits-all template.
Empowering Parents
Mike believes informed parents make better decisions. He equips you with the knowledge and confidence to advocate for yourself and your children.
Practical, Actionable Guidance
No vague platitudes. Mike gives you concrete steps, realistic expectations, and honest assessments so you can move forward with confidence.
Experience & Journey
A Career Built Around Families
Early Career
Foundation in Family Law
Mike began his career working closely with families navigating divorce and custody disputes, developing a deep understanding of the emotional and practical complexities involved.
Growing Practice
Specializing in Child Custody
Recognizing the unique challenges parents face in custody proceedings, Mike focused his work on child custody coaching — helping parents prepare, strategize, and advocate effectively.
Personal Experience
Child Custody Survivor
Mike has not only been a child custody litigator — he is also a child custody survivor. That personal experience shapes every coaching session with genuine empathy and insight.
 TODAY
Coaching Families Through Transition
With decades of experience and a deeply personal understanding of the process, Mike continues to be a trusted guide for parents navigating custody and co-parenting challenges.
Why It Matters
Experience Counts
Mike brings decades of deep, focused experience in family law and custody matters — not as a general practitioner, but as someone who has dedicated his career to understanding exactly what families in transition face.
35+ Years of Experience
Family law concentration
Co-Parenting Communication
The most important skill set to ensure that your children grow up happy and mentally fit
Court-Appointed Mediator
Recognized by the courts
Best Interest Attorney
Court-appointed advocate for children
Testimonials
Joe M.
"Highly Recommended for tough personal legal matters handled with utmost importance."
I've used Mike for years in a number of personal matters and he always answered my calls and got right to work. Long time Lawyer for past, present, and future.
Highly recommended to anyone who needs his services. Mostly he's very honest, empathetic, caring, and friendly. I never have to worry about him showing up on my/your behalf.
Cindy
Grandparents
Mike guided me through a difficult situation with my grandchild. His knowledge and guidance helped my family through a difficult time.
Mike's philosophy is to always make effort to work things out for the children.
Mike is highly ethical, and a credible attorney, and would highly recommend him.
Anonymous
Divorce
Going through a divorce for me was extremely difficult. Finding a lawyer took me longer than I anticipated. Mike was hands down the best lawyer I have hired. He took into account the emotional and financial toll the case had on me. He went above and beyond his job description to make this process manageable for me.Â
Mike had the kindness and decency to keep me updated and to check on me to see if I was okay. I'd highly recommend anyone to hire him.
Ana
Don't look any further! Highly recommend!
Highly recommend Michael Mastracci has been our family lawyers for years, and I cannot recommend him enough. He's caring, compassionate, and truly takes the time to understand his client. He's the kind of attorney who will get up and fight for you when it matters the most. While also telling you what you need to hear and guiding you through difficult times with empathy and clarity.
If you're looking for someone who geniunely cares and delivers results, he's the one you want in your corner.
Judy
A lawyer that caresÂ
Mike truly cares about you and treats you with respect and compassion. He returns calls and emails promptly and truly wants you to have the best outcome. Â
He will not take your case if he doesn't think he can help and will even refer you to the appropriate practice.
Bryan
Outstanding Legal Counsel!Â
Outstanding in understanding and patience. Willing to get to know you and your situation.Â
If you need someone outside this specialty, he'll work to find you the best representation.Â
Thank you, Mike!
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